How to Pick the Best Mattress for You and Your Partner

Shopping for a mattress as a couple isn’t always easy, especially when you both have different sleep styles. Maybe one of you runs hot while the other loves to burrow under blankets, or one needs extra support while the other prefers a softer feel. The right mattress can help you both sleep better, toss and turn less, and wake up feeling more rested (and less cranky).
Here’s how to find a mattress that works for both of you.
Understanding Your Sleeping Styles and Preferences
Before you start looking at mattress features, take a moment to think about how you both sleep. Your habits and preferences are the first piece of the puzzle. Talk through your habits and preferences, as this will make it much easier to find something that works for both of you.
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Preferred sleeping positions (side, back, or stomach)
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Any existing pain points or pressure areas
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Temperature sensitivity during sleep
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Motion sensitivity to partner movement
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Firmness preferences
At our Nest Bedding showrooms, we regularly see couples who discover they have different needs only after having this conversation. Understanding these differences helps narrow down the options to mattresses that can accommodate both partners' requirements.
Key Features for Couples' Mattresses
Motion Transfer Prevention
Motion isolation ranks among the most critical features for couples' mattresses. Our Sparrow Signature Hybrid mattress addresses this concern with its specialized motion-isolating technology, featuring multiple layers of foam that absorb movement before it can transfer across the bed.
The effectiveness of motion isolation often depends on the mattress construction:
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Memory foam typically offers excellent motion isolation
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Hybrid mattresses with pocketed coils provide good motion isolation while maintaining responsiveness
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Traditional innerspring mattresses usually transfer more motion
Temperature Regulation
Couples often disagree about the ideal sleeping temperature. Modern cooling technologies in mattresses can help bridge this gap. Our Owl Natural Latex Hybrid mattress incorporates natural materials and advanced cooling features to help regulate temperature throughout the night.
Effective cooling features include:
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Phase-change materials that absorb and release heat
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Breathable cover materials
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Strategic airflow channels
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Natural materials like latex that promote better air circulation
Edge Support
Edge support might not sound like a big deal, but it really matters when you're sharing a bed. Without it, you can lose up to 30% of the usable sleep surface, according to industry tests, which means less room to spread out and more chances of bumping into each other at night.. Our Sparrow Signature Hybrid features reinforced edges that maintain their shape and support, allowing both partners to use the full surface of the mattress comfortably.
Customization Options for Different Sleep Preferences
Split Firmness Options
One of our most popular solutions for couples with different firmness preferences is our internal split firmness option, available in our Finch Natural Latex mattress. This innovative design allows each partner to choose their preferred firmness level on their side of the bed without it looking like two different mattresses pushed together.
Our split firmness option has helped thousands of couples find their perfect compromise without requiring separate mattresses or adjustable bases.
Pressure Relief and Support
Different body types and sleep styles need different kinds of support. That’s why our mattresses are built with layers that work together to keep you comfortable all night:
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Comfort layers that gently cushion and contour to your body
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Support layers that help keep your spine in a healthy position
Transition layers that add extra support, so you don’t sink in too far
Size Considerations for Couples
Choosing the Right Mattress Size
The size of your mattress significantly impacts sleep quality for couples. According to the Sleep Products Association, a queen-size mattress provides each person with about 30 inches of personal space, while a king-size offers 38 inches. Consider these factors when selecting your mattress size:
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Room dimensions and layout
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Physical space needed for comfortable sleep
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Budget considerations
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Bedroom furniture compatibility
Our most popular sizes for couples include:
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Queen (60" x 80"): Ideal for couples with limited space
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King (76" x 80"): Perfect for couples who need more personal space
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California King (72" x 84"): Excellent for taller individuals
Testing and Trial Periods
The Importance of Sleep Trials
We offer a 365-night sleep trial because we understand that it takes time to adjust to a new mattress. According to sleep experts, it typically takes 30-60 days for your body to fully adapt to a new sleep surface. Our extended trial period gives couples ample time to ensure their choice works for both partners.
During the trial period, pay attention to:
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Quality of sleep
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Morning aches or pains
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Temperature regulation
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Motion transfer
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Overall comfort levels
Making the Most of Your Trial Period
To effectively evaluate your mattress during the trial period:
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Use appropriate bedding
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Maintain consistent room temperature
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Give your body time to adjust
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Keep track of sleep quality
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Communicate with your partner about their experience
Maintenance and Longevity
Extending Your Mattress Life
A quality mattress is an investment in your sleep health. Our Lifetime Renewal Exchange program allows couples to refresh their mattress's comfort layers when needed, effectively extending its lifespan. Regular maintenance can help maintain your mattress's performance:
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Rotate the mattress every 3-6 months
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Use a mattress protector
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Clean spills promptly
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Ensure proper support from your bed frame
Warranty Considerations
Our lifetime warranty covers manufacturing defects and premature sagging. Understanding warranty terms helps protect your investment:
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What's covered and what's not
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How to make a claim
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Required maintenance
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Documentation needed
Conclusion
Selecting the perfect mattress as a couple requires careful consideration of both partners' needs and preferences. Focus on key features like motion isolation, temperature regulation, and customization options to find a mattress that works for both of you. Our range of mattresses at Nest Bedding offers solutions for couples with different sleeping styles and preferences, backed by our 365-night trial period and lifetime warranty.
Take advantage of our sleep trial to thoroughly test your chosen mattress, and remember that communication with your partner about sleep preferences and experiences is crucial for making the right choice. Shop online or visit our showrooms to explore our selection of couples-friendly mattresses and find the perfect match for your sleep needs.