A Guide to Bedtime Comfort and Safety for Seniors

Are you caring for an elderly parent or grandparent? Do you worry about a beloved senior who's living alone? If so, there are many things you can do to keep them safe and comfortable throughout the day. However, providing the same level of care and comfort becomes more difficult at bedtime. After all, you have to sleep sometimes, too!

Creating a Comfortable Sleeping Space

Is your senior loved one's bedroom a comfortable place to sleep? Can they read comfortably in bed, reach nighttime essentials, get to the bathroom safely, and stay warm enough? Review these questions together so the room reflects their needs.

A great bed equals great sleep

The bed is a major part of bedroom comfort. Our mattress guide for seniors explains key comfort and support considerations. A worn, lumpy mattress may be a sign that replacement is due.

Start by reviewing the Nest Bedding mattress collection for an appropriate comfort and support option. For people managing lower-back pain, review Spine-health mattress guidance for lower-back pain and consult a qualified healthcare professional when needed.

Since seniors sometimes have problems with 'leakage,' it's a good idea to protect that new mattress with a waterproof mattress protector. It will protect the bed and prevent any regrets resulting from an unavoidable accident.

That quality mattress deserves quality bedding

Comfortable Nest Bedding sheet sets can add a polished touch to the room. Our guide to preventing sheet pilling explains how to care for the fabric, while the Nest Bedding bedding collection offers coordinated options.

Flannel sheets are warmer in the winter while percale sheets are more cooling in summer. Since temperature affects the quality of sleep, it's probably a good idea to invest in different types of sheets and pillowcases for different seasons.

A down comforter is both warmer and lighter than a standard comforter and is a luxury many seniors would enjoy. A duvet cover will protect the bedding and is easier to clean than the much larger quilt. However, removing and replacing a duvet cover is not a job for a senior to tackle alone!

Bedtime necessities are a must

Some older adults experience dry mouth, especially at night, so keeping water within easy reach can help. Medication and lotion may also be useful bedside essentials. The National Institute on Aging offers skin-care guidance for older adults.

It's also essential that they have a phone or medical alert device within easy reach in case of an emergency. A lamp allows them to read in bed or see to take those pills. Choosing a touch lamp that turns on and off with a simple tap on the base is a lot easier on old hands than one with a fiddly knob that's hard to even find in the dark.

A nightstand will fulfill these needs nicely. One with rounded edges and corners is safer and less likely to cause injury if bumped. The National Institute on Aging notes in its skin-care guidance for older adults that aging skin can bruise more easily.

Provide a little extra comfort

Some older adults are more comfortable with the upper body elevated. Our adjustable-bed guide explains the setup and considerations. Keeping an extra pillow and a light blanket nearby can also make it easier to adjust comfort during the night.

That is because their metabolism has slowed down with age and their skin no longer insulates with a thin layer of fat. Medical conditions that restrict blood flow, along with the medications used to treat them, can also contribute to a senior who is always cold.

Provide an extra pillow and a couple of warm throws in a large basket near the bed. Throws are smaller and lighter than actual blankets, so they're easier for a chilled senior to handle by themselves. Many seniors would spend the night slightly chilled rather than wake someone up to help them with a heavy blanket. A basket with a lid will help protect the extra bedding from dust between uses. Just make sure that it's easy for your senior to get the top off by themselves.

A bed tray makes it easier for your senior to read in bed and it also lets you or the grandchildren pamper them with an occasional breakfast in bed! A low lip will help keep spills and crumbs off the bedding. Just make sure the rim isn't uncomfortable on their wrists while reading.

Keeping them safe

Many seniors have to make at least one trip to the bathroom during the night. Doing so in the dark puts them at higher risk of a dangerous fall. Adding automatic nightlights along their path to the bathroom can help prevent a fall during the night. Keeping a pair of slippers with non-slip soles and a robe on a wall hook next to their bed can keep them from getting chilled during their nightly treks.

What if they need help?

If you're caring for someone with Alzheimer's or another serious condition that makes it unsafe for them to be up and about by themselves, you may need some additional safety devices.

• A call button like hospitals use lets them request help without the indignity of having to shout for someone to help them. If a call button reminds them too much of being in a hospital, a pretty bell will also summon help as long as it's loud enough.
• Bed safety rails can keep them from falling out of bed and might discourage them from trying to get up on their own.
• Alert pads on the bed and the floor will sound an alarm if they try to get out of bed by themselves. It is a particularly important precaution for people with dementia who may wander. Their condition may prevent them from recognizing the danger of going for a stroll in a midnight blizzard.

Treat yourself to a better night's sleep